Well, a major problem that usually occurs is trust. Your guy wants to trust you. You want him to trust you. So how do you gain this trust? By proving to him that you are trust worthy. I'm sorry, but if you hide things and expect him to trust that what your hiding is insignificant your wrong. If he is about to see something you don't want him to, don't take it away really quick. Don't erase it. Don't worry. It's not the end of the world. There should be absolutely no reason you should hide anything that you wrote down from him. True love conquerors all for both sides. But it gets hard to trust someone, even someone you care hard about, when they constantly hide things from you. To earn that trust you have to prove it. By allowing him to see something you might not rather him see when he stumbles upon it. It will strengthen his trust because that way he will know what kind of things you actually hide from him or don't tell him. If you hide tons of things from him almost constantly don't you think it's going to make him worry? You can't expect a man to learn to trust you, if he doesn't feel that you trust him. With even some of the strangest things. Stop worrying so much about hiding. If he finds something it shouldn't be that bad in the first place. If it is you have problems that you need to sort out.
Just a bit of ranting.
HolyPhoenix Out
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
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